Horrible Scary Bday Surprise
The last 2 weeks has been a roller coaster ride. KL returned with tales from Vegas, while I had my own tears about his absence. Soon after, a friend came to stay with us while he looked for accommodation. I never got to spend alone time with KL since he returned.
Finally, last Friday, our friend moved out but then we were hit with news that KL’s parents coming for 5 freaking weeks. We had a major meltdown on Monday complete with tears, screams, shouts, broken remote control and even promises to be kept.
I was mainly mad that it was bad time for them to come because KL is having pressures at work and possibly a major re-adjustment with management and likely a part to play. I was still coping with stressed at work having to do everything since we are one man down. How bad timing is that?
Plus, how downright despicable to take advantage of Aunty Stella’s generosity by getting her to pay for her tickets. Isn’t it also shameful to lie that you have no money (WHAT ABOUT THE $20K??) and using sympathy to scam tickets? WTF! ARGH!
Lastly, the fact that we already had plans to spend KL’s 30th in sunny Sydney. Plus, our Wedding Anniversary and my so very important birthday. I don’t want to spend it with them. I don’t like them. They are horrible people.
I want my Daddy. *wawa wah wah…
Starting from my suspicion when Aunty Stella said she’s got a surprise for KL’s birthday. I knew something is up. ARGH. Told KL and he said that I “mind-fucked” him into believing. Well, let me tell you, ladies and gentlemen, if I haven’t insisted that he go find out, we would still be in the dark. Called it woman’s intuition or instinct. Whatever, it is - I’m too clever for these nonsense. Btw, what kind of sick horrible surprise is that? A surprise is getting a new Porsche with a big bow in the front. Geez. Some people have some weird twisted idea of a birthday surprise.
Anyway, after the melt-down on Monday, I think our relationship is stronger now. Although KL has made it clear that he cannot deal with his mother no matter what. But I still feel like the evil bitch who doesn’t allow my husband’s mother to come see her son. There are only a few people who truly understand how that one person can drive people insane, ruining people’s lives in the process. She is one such selfish parent who has totally no regard of her child’s happiness whatsoever. Anyway, enough of all these unpleasantness. We have decided to ignore them while they are here because KL has already told them that we are busy as hell and it is really not a perfect time. KL has decided to stand on my side if I had any sort of abuse from them. Gosh, after nearly 12 years, he has finally come to his senses.
We’ll see how from now on.